Teach your kid to fishing but dont fish for them!

Parent love to do everything for their kids.By doing everything for your kids,do not indicate that you are giving them the best but it is actually the opposite.

By doing everything for your kids will increase the dependence of your kids on you. Preparing and doing everything for them will rob your kid’s opportunity to grow up, their opportunity to develop self reliance, which is the root of building their self esteem.

Basicprinciple of parenting, teach your kid how to hold his head high no matter what comes, then he will definitely sow seeds of happiness, success and prosperity in future life.

Give your kids the opportunity to learn to do things for themselves. It is common for them to made mistake but everybody learn from mistake and without making any mistake in life it is not called grow up process. We also made mistakes in life. Successful people in society made a lot of mistake before them success. Do not afraid of mistake and try to help them learn from mistake. So do not feel anxious to let your kids to do thing on their own, don’t be over protective where you help them in everything. Spoon feed them. This will spoil your kids and also affect their upbringing. It is your responsibility as a parent to produce a responsible, self-confident and independent kid.

To develop self-reliant and self-esteem in his inner self. As a parent, the must do thing is develop faith in your child.It is impossible for you to be forever with your child so you must let them fish on their own.Have faith in your child. This is what most of the parents lack of. Faith the best encouragement for your kids, for kids, to be trusted by their parents is a great compliment. Let them try some simple chores, you will be surprise that they feel honoured to be given the responsibility. They will finish the task by trying their best. They will have their natural way of doing it. Gratitude them when they helping out with the chores, and loosen your daily task. Your kids will feel value and loved by you. This will naturally help them boost up their self worth and self confident which will be useful in their future life.

Cherish your children

How many parent know that cherish your children is one of the smart parenting tips. I understand that sometime your children really drive you up to the fence. But bear in mind that no matter what situation you are in, cherish your children. Appreciate them. Do you know that there are millions of people in the world that wish to have kids but and unable to do so. Do you know that there so thousand of peoples in this world those are willing to trade places with you? All the kids are so naughty and it is normal for them to drive you crazy. But learn to enjoy them this is part of the parenting process where you will enjoy and appreciate when the memory flash back in future. Parent are impatient especially young parent, they do not tolerate the behaviour of their naughty child end up in scolding and whacking them. Do you know that this will affect your grown up child. So how can you get angry so easily when dealing with your kids? You are so lucky to have kids. Practice to hugs your kid. Do it at least once a day and try to tell them you are glad to have them with you. Show and express your gratitude of having the opportunity to be their parent. Don’t hide in your heart. You will be surprise that your kids will be impress and this help in the growing. A lot of parent do not realise the important of cherish their children and compare a child where their parent cherish them and child where their parent spend time scolding them, it is totally different. The child will grow up with different attitude and surprisingly, parents who always cherish their children will have a closer bond and your child can share a lot of things with you when they grow up. So parents don’t miss out this important thing in your parenting life.